Does love actually make you depressed?

I hear everyone crying about how miserable their lives are because they arent loved back. It really makes me wonder, do the people around them really dont love them back or are they denying the fact that they are being loved? I think that They just want to be treated in a special way, I find this very very disturbing because there are people out there who have real problems and are trying to fix it while these people are crying over their immature whims.

Relationships dont go well because its either the boy or the girl [or the girl and the girl or the guy and the guy] is immature, or in the worst case senario, they're all immature and they`ll cry if they dont get what they want, what kind of a relationship is that? If you really love a person, you'll find a way to make that person happy no matter what happens to you.So practically, you're crying over something which you created. why get in a relationship if you're not ready for it. right? whats up with the rush? There will always be a person who will love you even if him/her [or her/her or him/him] is not your boyfriend/girlfriend or girlfriend/girlfriend or boyfriend/boyfriend].

example. a friend will love you for who you are, even your parents, relatives.
and most of all. God loves you. i know some people find this corny or weird, but its true.
i believe that no matter what you do, Someone up there is ready to welcome you with open arms.

so whats up with the depression? like i said, it comes from themselves. not because the person they love dosent love them back, but because they didnt get what they want. they dont even need it, so why cry over it? a real relationship will go steady and work well if you're mature and you can rationalize properly. right?



...people are starting to forget the real meaning of love. i think this certain quote says it all :]

" Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil,
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails."

thought of PEACE

Peace, my heart, let the time for
the parting be sweet.
Let it not be a death but completeness.
Let love melt into memory and pain
into songs.
Let the flight through the sky end
in the folding of the wings over the
nest.
Let the last touch of your hands be
gentle like the flower of the night.
Stand still, O Beautiful End, for a
moment, and say your last words in
silence.
I bow to you and hold up my lamp
to light you on your way.



-jFKNkidd*

the b e s t f r i e n d

you can definitely say i love this girl with all my heart, shes been there for me since day one.
she means the world to me and no one can take that away from us, we once had the love and dedication it took to be in a relationship but it all drifted away
because the past came and brushed its own way through everything and screwed me up dearly,
do i wish that this never happened? well i may never know until i open my eyes and look at the real world and the real question is do i wish to???